One Word Archives - Lara Eastburn

Nov 7

This one's Free!
In the One Word FORUM, we develop and hone a practice for investigating the words we use to create, talk about, and promote our businesses together.
You set the tone. Bring to the Forum the words that perplex, delight, or frustrate in your own industry - even, especially, in your own copy.
Together, we'll engage in questioning the pre-scribed language of business and marketing using etymology, history, linguistics, humor, and plain ol' common sense.
Thursday, Nov 10. 10am CT.
Our conscious re-examination of the words we use can reduce harm, restore agency, and straight up make business better.
#speakhumanwintheinternet
#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

Oct 26

For me and the people I work with, building an audience means asking 2 questions:
Is this something you think about, too?
and
Do you wanna think about it with me?
Because - and I hate to quibble with the OED - but our audience is literally everyone alive.
Our community - the ones who are asking the same questions as us - is something different.
I don't have to build an audience.
I WANT to find my people.
Full text just hit inboxes if you're yet part of our little digital epistolary linguistic romance already. This is your jam and you're not signed up yet? Come join us!
#speakhumanwintheinternet
#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

Aug 24

The latest edition of One Word is about the titles we're given and the ones we give ourselves. It's a linguistic process that we are continually negotiating - and one that's taking up a lot of my mental space right now.
It's already in inboxes if you've joined the list! Word Nerds welcome: https://laraeastburn.com/oneword
#speakhumanwintheinternet
#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

Jul 12

"Exploit" just hit inboxes - and it may make you think differently about the word "leverage."
Not yet part of our little digital epistolary linguistic romance, friends? Come join us!
One Word is a series to examine, deconstruct & reinvent the received vocabulary of business and marketing.
#speakhumanwintheinternet
#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#marketinglinguist
#businesslinguistics
#linguistics
#etymology
#oneword

May 27

Balance is the newest addition to the One Word email series. And it's just hit inboxes. Are you signed up?
In 2022, with remote work on the rise, the phrase 'work-life balance' is at peak use (spoken and written with the highest recorded frequency) with no signs of slowing.
Work-Life Balance implies a binary that feels outdated at best. At worst, it rings as an imaginary - and too often, harmful - goalpost.
It is a story that (dis)places the responsibility of 'not working too much' or 'not working enough' onto the worker's shoulders, rather than the expectations of employers, our culture, and predatory economic systems.
The One Word FORUM is Thursdays during JUNE! Join us for a limited-series, LIVE, communal investigation of the words upon which we build our businesses. Grab your place at laraeastburn.com
#speakhumanwintheinternet
#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

May 13

Our conscious re-examination of the words we use can reduce harm, restore agency, and straight up make business better.
In the One Word FORUM, we'll develop and hone a practice for investigating the words we use to create, talk about, and promote our businesses together.
You set the tone. Bring to the Forum the words that perplex, delight, or frustrate in your own industry - even, especially, in your own copy.
Together, we'll engage in questioning the pre-scribed language of business and marketing using etymology, history, linguistics, humor, and plain ol' common sense.
Thursdays during June at 10am CT. Come to one ($10). Or join us for all 5 sessions ($40). Jun 2 - 30.
#speakhumanwintheinternet
#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

Apr 15

'One Word' is back in your inbox!
This one's a little ditty about our conceptions of 'good' and 'evil' when it comes to advertising - and why those are weird measures. Also, a little teaser about The Forum - a live OneWord experiment coming in May.
One Word is a series to examine, deconstruct & reinvent the received vocabulary of business and marketing.
Not yet part of our little digital epistolary linguistic romance, friends? Come join us!
#speakhumanwintheinternet
#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing #wordnerd
#startwiththewords #linguistics
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

Jan 20

Fill up your drinking horn of mead! Because the latest edition of OneWord is all about how the name of a thousand-year-old Viking king ended up on every single one of our phones.
This is a fun one - and timely! It's all about naming stuff, which is exactly what we'll be doing THIS Friday, Jan 21 at 11am in the Name-Your-Shit Wordshop. It's not too late to join us - $50 | laraeastburn.com
Not receiving the good word yet? One Word is a series to re-examine, deconstruct & reinvent the received vocabulary of business.
#speakhumanwintheinternet
#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

Jan 5

Naming our products, courses, websites, newsletters, programs … is not like naming KIDS or pets!! Except that it … SO … is.
Naming things is half science, half art. Equal parts research and intuition. And in my experience, it’s best done with friends!
I'll be sharing my own iterable, "if-then" process for naming things in this wordshop. One you can use and repeat with confidence. It will be SO worth every one of those 5,000 pennies.
So, friends, let’s get together and name some shit!
laraeastburn.com/wordshop
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👋 I’m Lara! I’m a digital ads expert for small business. Also a linguist. Mainly, I’m hella good at marketing and words. I’m good at them because I use both of them to make the internet a better place.
#speakhumanwintheinternet
#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

Dec 31

The latest edition of 'One Word' has just landed in your inbox if you're part of our little digital epistolary romance, friends!
9.75 times out of 10, dropping the word 'resonate' in casual convo tends to raise my little linguistic hairs. In this missive, I explore why.
One Word is a series to examine, deconstruct & reinvent the received vocabulary of business and marketing. Link in bio.
#speakhumanwintheinternet
#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

Oct 29

Should.
This one is tough because I HATE THIS WORD. It's fair to say that my biases toward the word 'should' are ... multiple, many-layered, and maybe unsurpassable.
Should is the word at the tip TOP of my shit list.
I can recognize that my aversion to the word is likely a product of my upbringing and ongoing journey outside of it.
It's possible that for other people, 'should' implies something like 'best practices.' But I just hear "These are the rules. This is the answer."
"You know what you should do, Lara?"
"How many times should I post, Lara?"
"Lara, you should try this app."
"10 Things You Should Do To Optimize Your Ads."
"Lara, should I change ... ?"
Clients know my answer for any question that involves this red-flag word:
"The only thing you SHOULD be doing is what works for your business."
When I'm pushed, I'll say "This is what's working for me right now." Or "It looks to me like ..." Or "Here's what I've observed lately."
But ... standards? No. I'm in the business of bucking those. And I'm a classic case of tending to want to do the opposite of what I should do.
Still, 'should' is the ghost in my machine. It haunts me even though I don't believe in it. It gums up the works even when I push it away.
SHOULD (Old English sceal, Northumbrian scule) means "to owe / to be under obligation."
Should - and its every cognate (linguistic cousin) to the word means 'to owe,' "duty' - even 'to be guilty.' The word's meaning hasn't changed since ... well, ever.
There is no moment that should - and all of its ancestors - didn't mean 'to owe.'
When we tell folks what they should do, we're telling them what they "owe us." We're telling them what they're guilty of not doing. We're telling them that there is a condition (obligation) for success - or worse, approval.
And should has equally twisted cousins.
OUGHT is the past tense of OWE. NEED TO means what IS REQUIRED.
No, no, no. The hairs raise on the back of my neck when I hear these words.
Take your SH*?&D and shove it!
That's the word, nerd.
#speakhumanwintheinternet
#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

Oct 27

Small business owners wish we could clone ourselves on the daily! But none of us manages well alone.
👉 Social media ADS are one of those areas in our business where we often need some expert help.
But if yours is a business working to change your field and our culture for the better, it's tough to find an ads manager that shares your values.
👋 I'm Lara. And I get up in the morning to make ads that MATTER.
Ads that are beneficial to businesses AND the humans they serve. Yep - at the same time.
✓ We say what's true.
✓ We amplify hope, not pain.
✓ We make ads that don't behave like ads.
✓ We create messaging and media that reflect the spectrum of human experience.
✓ Whenever possible, we entertain!
Because if it's not fun, true, and culture-changing, why bother?
#speakhumanwintheintheinternet
#startwiththewords
#maketheinternetabetterplace
Image by @callynthphotography

Aug 5

SOLUTIONS.
Got a problem? Somebody on the internet wants to (dis)solve it.
There are solutions, y'all. It took me all of 10 minutes to compile this little collage of 40 logos (image 2). It could have been thousands. And that's just business names - never mind slogans and taglines.
Like, the digital landscape is so intense you need, y'know, solutions.
USUALLY, this is the part where I'd talk about the word's lazy vaguery. About how its overuse has emptied it of any meaning at all. You've got answers? We've got solutions! Yawn.
Except this is a truly fascinating word. Its verb form, solve, has the same etymological root as that which would seem to be its opposite, dissolve (resolve and absolve, too). Their Latin great-grandma, solvere, meant to loosen, untie, release.
Which threw me for a linguistic loop for a good minute - my features stuck in the super attractive, scrunched-up configuration my laptop surely knows as my stumped face.
How could solution mean BOTH 'to find an answer' and 'to undo?'
But here's the thing: these are not words that function alone. They always require a direct object. We can't just 'solve' the way we can just 'walk,' for instance. We solve something. We seek a solution to something.
And it's in the something that we understand how finding a solution is simultaneously an undoing.
If we are to solve a Rubix cube, a riddle, a knot - we will loosen it. If we desire a solution to the wage gap, it will involve an undoing of patriarchy. Solutions to global warming demand undoing what we've done, releasing our current ways of existing.
⭐ Solving a problem, in other words, is equivalent to dissolving it.
And that's a reading that shines a whole new light on the word solution for me. It changes how I understand the word entirely. Now, instead of causing me to roll my eyes, it raises my brows, and perks my ears. You?
That's the word, nerd.
👉 ⭐One Word is a series to examine, deconstruct & reinvent the received vocabulary of business. laraeastburn.com/oneword
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#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

Jul 8

*This is an excerpt from the latest One Word email - link in, well you know 🙂
“But WHY?!?!” demands our red-faced 9-year-old.
Her father has now denied her 4th request to take a small boat out on our small lake.
“Because I said so,” he finally answers without knowing exactly why. (Hey, it worked for HIS dad, right?)
Last week I stumbled upon several articles claiming the word “because” was the most important word in sales.
Hmmmm…. said my brain. Plausible assertion, right? But .. WHY?
Turns out it’s all about a 1978 psychological paper colloquially called by marketers “The Copy Machine Experiment.”
Yes, 1978. It went like this. At the CUNY library, Ellen Langer et al sent in researchers one at a time (half women, half men) to cut the line at a busy copy machine with 3 different ‘reasons.’
Image 2 shows the results that numerous marketers quote as proof that you just need to say the word ‘because’ to get people to do what you want.
EXCEPT … NO.
Because anyone with a child – or who has ever been in a relationship with another human ever – knows for a FACT that’s some bullshit.
That's why the numbers change considerably when the stakes are higher. Not HIGH, though – it’s still 20 copies in the second test (not 200). This part of the study is what all the marketers IGNORE.
The argument here is that we don’t hear what comes after “because” that’s all we need to hear. But this study is about cached language and automatic responses in low-stakes situations of inconvenience, NOT high-stakes sales situations.
I'm still going to use "because." Because it’s the right thing to do when it’s real.
I say to ads clients, “Take your time with this decision because it’s a big deal and it’s important you choose the person that’s right for your business.”
I’m NOT ever going to say, “Hire me because I’m the best.” “Because I can guarantee results.” “Because you’ll be sorry if you don’t.”
BECAUSE the word carries power.
Check your copy. Are you using it in ways that feel good? Because it matters.
#speakhumanwintheinternet
#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

Jun 9

Here's a word that shows up to the marketing and business party with more than its fair share of baggage.
It arrives in written English in 1340 and is already fully infused with religion. Conversion is - from the very beginning - a Christian word.
What does that mean for the way we use it business? This one just hit inboxes! If you're not signed up yet, head to that link in bio and I'll get it to you!
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#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

May 23

By the time we start Kindergarten, we've downloaded and assimilated HALF the major framework we will ever have for understanding and communicating in the world.
What?!
The average English-speaker has an active vocabulary of 20,000 words. (English words in active use number over 171,000). Another 20,000 words make up our passive vocabulary - words we know exist and recognize, but never use.
As tiny humans, we absorb the history of these words (without understanding it), their baggage (without recognizing it), and their context (without questioning it) before we can even write a word.
Language acquisition means learning HOW words are used.
But rarely WHAT they mean - or WHY.
Eager to change yourself or the world around you?
Start With the Words.
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#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

May 18

Every day, we attempt an action that is both utterly commonplace - and technically, ostensibly impossible.
We endeavor to move a thought from our minds into a space where someone else can hear - and hopefully participate in it.
We set out to move the ideas "in here" ... "out there."
TODAY, like all the days before, we will attempt to communicate.
We will open our mouths to speak - or put fingers to a keyboard - in an attempt to answer the call to "put ourselves out there."
But the cursor blinks. The tongue stalls. The heart SINKS.
Will I say it right? Will they get what I mean? Will they understand?
Communicating is H A R D.
It's not you. It's the words.
Before us lies the ACHING space between what we want to say and what we will say. The awe-ful gap between what we mean and what is heard.
So we reach for the flawed-most-powerful-and-only tool at our disposal. The words we have practiced and trained in since birth.
The lumbering, speeding train onto which we are born.
Words both inherited and acquired.
Language familiar and still strange.
At once beautiful and terrible.
Infinite and yet always inadequate.
At the heart of One Word - this effort you and I are taking to re-examine the words we use - is this question:
Can we TRUST these words?
IS this navigating the aching gap?
ARE we communicating?
That's the word, nerd.
*Join me for more word adventures - link in bio.
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#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

May 3

I am 45 today! For my IG Birthday wish, I'd like to know ... YOUR favorite word. Throw 'em in the comments - and tell me why you it's your fave <3!
Photo @callynthphotography
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#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

Apr 26

Healthy lifestyle, diet, finances, parenting style, portfolio, routine, balance, mental state, marriage ...
There's no shortage of folks telling (and selling) us what's healthy in every category of our lives. Defining and marketing this particular word is big business because health is presented to us both as a) a social requirement, and b) something elusive, changing, and always just outside our reach.
Use of the word 'healthy' in marketing relies upon its nebulous nature. In other words, it shifts the responsibility of definition from the writer to the reader. From the marketer to the consumer. Because, in the absence of meaning, we will summon an array of socio-cultural norms to fill the vacuum.
Words like 'healthy' (and fit and wellness and well-being) are not DEFINING health. They are naming whatever is the current, dominant construct of health.
It's why products from radium to cocaine could at one time be marketed as "healthy." It's why veganism and meat-only diets can make identical claims to "health."
The message is: 'You know that ideal of health that is most dominant in our culture right now? This product/method will get you that.'
The Health At Every Size (HAES) and body-positive movements as a whole make this linguistic distinction crystal clear.
Their use of the word 'health' explicitly understands how the word functions in the minds of consumers - and turns it on its head. It's message: 'You know that ideal of health that is most dominant in our culture right now? It's making a LOT of assumptions. It's leaving out a lot of people. And damn it, it may just be wrong.'
Think there's not a moral imperative in this word? 150 years ago, the adjective-in-use wasn't healthy.
It was GODLY.
That's the word, nerd.
*This is a much-abbreviated version of the full entry of the latest edition of 'One Word' - a series to re-examine and re-invent the received language of business & marketing. Join the list to get it first - or explore the archives at laraeastburn.com.
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#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword
#linguistics #haes

Apr 6

Here's a word that has always irked me in a marginally grating way, like a dripping faucet.
I don't hate it, exactly. I get the gist. But there's something about it that doesn't sit quite right in my ears - or in my mouth.
The way we use "monetize" in the marketing/business sense today entered our language just under 20 years ago. Like so many words quickly adopted for a digital world that exploded nearly overnight - it is BORROWED from elsewhere.
In this edition of One Word, you'll find out when, where, and how "monetize" reared its odd head online. WHY I predict it won't be around for much longer ... and what it all has to do with the tale of Rumpelstistkin (what?).
If you're subscribed, it's already in your inbox. If you're not, I'd L-O-V-E for you to join me for adventures in re-examining the received language of business and marketing!
#speakhumanwintheinternet
#adsthatmatter
#marketwithmeaning
#responsiblemarketing
#sustainablemarketing
#startwiththewords
#businesslinguistics
#oneword

Speak Human, Win The Internet.

We exercise responsibility in marketing through linguistic precision, social awareness, and radical inclusivity. Lara Eastburn is a Facebook & Instagram Ads specialist for smaller business & non-profits.